c/s通信或线程通信问题
先贴代码再说 
 服务器端代码   
 import   java.awt.event.*; 
 import   java.io.*; 
 import   java.net.*; 
 import   java.util.*;   
 class   Customer   extends   Object   implements   Serializable 
 { 
 	String   custName,   custPwd; 
 } 
 public   class      AppServer   implements   Runnable 
 { 
 	//建立一个ServerSocket   对象   ,注意没有初始化 
 	ServerSocket   serverSocket; 
 	Socket   client; 
 	Thread   serverThread;  	 
 	public   AppServer() 
 	{   
 		try 
 		{	//ServerSocket对象初始化 
 			serverSocket   =   new   ServerSocket(1001); 
 			serverThread   =   new   Thread(this); 
 			serverThread.start();	 
 		} 
 		catch   (
IOException   e) 
 		{ 
 			fail(e,    "不能启动服务器 "); 
 		} 
 		System.out.println( "服务器开始运行..... ");  	    
 	} 
 	public   static   void   fail(Exception   e   ,   String   Str) 
 	{ 
 		System.out.println(Str   +    "   .    "   +   e); 
 	} 
 	public   void   run() 
 	{ 
 		try 
 		{ 
 			while(true) 
 			{ 
 				Socket   client   =      serverSocket.accept(); 
 				Connection   con   =   new   Connection(client); 
 			} 
 		} 
 		catch   (IOException   e) 
 		{         //调用自定义的fail方法 
 			fail(e,    "没有监听 "); 
 		} 
 	} 
 	public   static   void   main(String[]   args)    
 	{ 
 		//声明一个对象 
 		new   AppServer(); 
 	} 
 }   
 class   Connection   extends   Thread 
 { 
 	Socket   netClient; 
 	ObjectInputStream   fromClient; 
 	PrintStream   toClient; 
 	Customer   clientMessage;  	 
 	static   Vector   vector   =   new   Vector(1,1); 
             static   int   messageCount;//To   count   the   total   number   of   messages             
                                                                                     //stored 
             private   int   localMsgCount;//   To   count   local   messages       	 
 	public   Connection(Socket   client) 
 	{ 
 		netClient   =   client;   
 		try 
 		{ 
 			//   用来获得客户端传过来的信息 
 			fromClient   =   new   ObjectInputStream(client.getInputStream()); 
 			//   用来向向客户端写出信息 
 			toClient   =   new   PrintStream(client.getOutputStream()); 
 		} 
 		catch   (IOException   e) 
 		{ 
 			try 
 			{ 
 				netClient.close(); 
 			} 
 			catch   (IOException   el) 
 			{ 
 				System.out.println( "不能建立流       "+   el); 
 				return   ; 
 			} 
 		} 
 		this.start(); 
 	} 
 	public   void   run() 
 	{  		 
 		try 
 		{ 
 			clientMessage   =   (Customer)fromClient.readObject();  			 
 			//toClient.print(clientMessage.custName+ "   Connected "); 
 			//System.out.println(clientMessage.custName);  			 
 			for(;;) 
 			{ 
 				System.out.println( "yes "); 
 				clientMessage   =   (Customer)fromClient.readObject();//(1) 
 				System.out.println( "no ");